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Resources to Learn More about Child Loss, Grief, and Related Topics

I have compiled a list of some of the books, articles, podcasts, documentaries, and other resources I have encountered that have been really interesting and helpful for learning more about child loss, palliative care, grief, and related topics.

I have broken down some of the sections into type of resource, if they talk about the topic generally. The resources from the general section are likely to present an American perspective, as those are the resources I have been most able to readily access. I also have sections for various countries/regions that talk about cultural factors and other specifics that are particular to that area.

Resources that are italicized are in a foreign language, but I most have an English translation available.

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General Books

The top includes books that I have read, the bottom has those recommended to me that I have not yet explored.

This is just a very small sampling of the books out there. If you have more that you or someone you know have found helpful that you think I should add to my list, please reach out!

  • The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down: A Hmong Child, Her American Doctors, and the Collision of Two Cultures by Anne Fadiman

  • The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion

  • Blue Nights by Joan Didion

  • Being Moral: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Atul Gawande

  • Fresh Fruit, Broken Bodies by Seth Holmes

  • Lissa by Saharien Hamdy and Coleman Nye

  • Grief & Loss: Theories & Skills for the Helping Professions by Katherine Walsh

  • Finding the Words: How to Talk with children and teens about death, suicide, funerals, homicide, cremation and other end-of-life matters by Alan D. Wolfelt

  • Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief by Joanne Cacciatore

  • A Grief Observed by CS Lewis

  • Antoine des Gommiers by Lyonel Trouillot

  • Je suis vivant by Kettly Mars

  • Les Villages de Dieu by Emmelie Prophète

  • L'événement by Annie Ernaux

  • Alex: The Life of a Child by Frank Deford

  • Resilient Grieving: How to Find Your Way Through a Devastating Loss by Lucy C. Hone

  • Healing Children by Kurt Newman M.D.

  • Once More We Saw Stars by Jayson Greene

  • A Heart That Works by Rob Delaney

  • Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaoad

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  • When Treatment Fails: How Medicine Cares for Dying Children by David J. Bearison

  • Waves by Ingrid Chabbert and Carole Maurel

  • Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child by Gary Roe

  • ​Finding Hope When a Child Dies: What Other Cultures Can Teach Us by Susie Miller

  • Garden of Grief by Lori Koidahl

  • Comfort: A Journey Through Grief by Anne Hood

  • Ghosts of the Tsunami by Richard Lloyd Parry

  • Passed On: African American Mourning Stories by Karla FC Holloway

  • The Names of All the Flowers by Melissa Valentine

  • They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us by Hanif Abdurraquib

  • The Art of Death by Edwige Danticat

  • Mémoire errante by Jan J. Dominique

  • Angela's Ashes: A Memoir by Frank McCourt

  • Memories of Max by Allan Buchanan

  • The Cure for Sorrow: A Book of Blessings for Times of Grief by Jan Richardson

  • Grieving While Black: An Anti-Racist Take on Oppression and Sorrow by Breeshia Wad

  • The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs

  • Notes on Grief by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichi

  • Still Point of the Turning World by Emily Rapp Black

Books

Watch and Listen

Videos, Shows, Documentaries, Movies, and Podcasts

This is just a very small sampling of the resources out there. If you have more that you or someone you know have found helpful that you think I should add to my list, please reach out!

PODCASTS:​

  • Grief Out Loud

  • Bringing Wellbeing to Life

  • Good Mourning Grief

  • Shapes of Grief

  • A Good Cry

DOCUMENTARIES:

  • A Lion in the House

  • Speaking Grief

  • Hope Frozen

  • Surviving Death

  • Life Overtakes Me

  • The Casketeers

  • End Game

VIDEOS:

  • if anything happens I love you

  • DeathLand Youtube Documentary - The Guardian

  • This Doctor Wants to Humanize Death - NYT

  • Portraits of Life, Love, & Legacy Through Pediatric Palliative Care

  • Holding Space: Palliative Care in the NICU at Johns Hopkins

  • Cinema Therapy on Youtube - Some Recommended Videos Below

    • The Lion King​

    • UP and Grief

    • Big Hero Six and Grief

    • Coco

    • Onward

    • A Monster Calls

  • Ask a Mortician on Youtube​ - Some Recommended Videos Below

    • Watching My Girl​

    • Kid's Tea Party at the Mortuary

Media
Research
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